[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.spaarch.cz\/idealni-matka-neexistuje\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.spaarch.cz\/idealni-matka-neexistuje\/","headline":"Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed matka? Neexistuje!","name":"Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed matka? Neexistuje!","description":"Jste p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1 o tom, \u017ee m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt ve v\u0161em dokonal\u00e1 jenom z toho d\u016fvodu, \u017ee jste se o tom n\u011bkde do\u010detla nebo va\u0161e \u201edobr\u00e1\u201c kamar\u00e1dka v\u00e1m tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee ona n\u00ed je? Omyl. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 \u017eena nen\u00ed bezchybn\u00e1 a z pozice matky se toho p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho nezm\u011bn\u00ed. Naopak, budete m\u00edt tis\u00edce d\u016fvod\u016f k tomu, pro\u010d perfektn\u00ed nikdy […]","datePublished":"2023-05-10","dateModified":"2023-05-10","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.spaarch.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.spaarch.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7320ca526354d2794ceb75173050bfa147af8617816df401a16569341b5fbaf?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7320ca526354d2794ceb75173050bfa147af8617816df401a16569341b5fbaf?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"spaarch.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.spaarch.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a336811_w2018_t1550080019.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.spaarch.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a336811_w2018_t1550080019.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.spaarch.cz\/idealni-matka-neexistuje\/","wordCount":537,"articleBody":"Jste p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1 o tom, \u017ee m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt ve v\u0161em dokonal\u00e1 jenom z toho d\u016fvodu, \u017ee jste se o tom n\u011bkde do\u010detla nebo va\u0161e \u201edobr\u00e1\u201c kamar\u00e1dka v\u00e1m tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee ona n\u00ed je? Omyl.\t\u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 \u017eena nen\u00ed bezchybn\u00e1 a z pozice matky se toho p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho nezm\u011bn\u00ed.\tNaopak, budete m\u00edt tis\u00edce d\u016fvod\u016f k tomu, pro\u010d perfektn\u00ed nikdy nebudete a a\u0165 u\u017e se budete sna\u017eit sebev\u00edc, nikdo v\u00e1m to stejn\u011b v\u011b\u0159it nebude. Alespo\u0148 ne ostatn\u00ed matky, kter\u00e9 doma maj\u00ed d\u011bti taky.\t\tNava\u0159eno, uklizeno, nape\u010deno, d\u00edt\u011b zaobstar\u00e1no\tJestli si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 den s va\u0161im d\u00edt\u011btem zvl\u00e1dnete na jedni\u010dku a v\u0161e kolem v\u00e1s se bude bl\u00fdskat \u010distotou a je\u0161t\u011b si stihnete i upravit make-up, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b pot\u0159ebujete trochu otev\u0159\u00edt o\u010di.\tB\u00fdt matkou toti\u017e neznamen\u00e1 zvl\u00e1dat celou dom\u00e1cnost na sto procent, m\u00edt nava\u0159en\u00e9 ty nejb\u00e1je\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed j\u00eddla, uklizen\u00fd cel\u00fd d\u016fm jako ze \u0161katulky a je\u0161t\u011b nachystanou b\u00e1bovku na stole.\t\tZnamen\u00e1 to pln\u011b se v\u011bnovat d\u00edt\u011bti, kter\u00e9ho nezaj\u00edm\u00e1 to, jak\u00e9 hodnocen\u00ed v\u00e1m d\u00e1 va\u0161e okol\u00ed za to, co v\u0161echno zvl\u00e1d\u00e1te i d\u00edky tomu, \u017ee jste m\u00e1ma.\tNen\u00ed p\u0159ece logicky mo\u017en\u00e9 (a to ani p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b), abyste v\u0161echno m\u011bly ide\u00e1ln\u00ed a va\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte se to nijak nedotklo. V\u0161echnu energii, kterou vlo\u017e\u00edte do va\u0161eho dokonal\u00e9ho statusu vzorn\u00e9 m\u00e1my, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 v\u0161echno pod palcem, vlo\u017e\u00edte pouze do va\u0161\u00ed p\u0159edstavy o tom, co je dle v\u00e1s bezchybn\u00e9. Ov\u0161em m\u00edsto toho, abyste se soust\u0159edily na to, co je zbyte\u010dn\u00e9, byste m\u011bly ve\u0161kerou pozornost a \u010das v\u011bnovat pouze va\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti, kter\u00e9 pot\u0159ebuje c\u00edtit a v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee jste tu pro n\u011bho a m\u00e1te chu\u0165 a s\u00edlu se mu v\u011bnovat naplno.\tJe mnohem dokonalej\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e se star\u00e1te pouze o pot\u0159eby va\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte, u\u010d\u00edte ho nov\u00fdm v\u011bcem, poznatk\u016fm, v\u011bdomostem a zach\u00e1z\u00edte s n\u00edm jako se st\u0159edem vesm\u00edru, kter\u00fdm popravd\u011b i je. Jen si to mus\u00edte uv\u011bdomit.\tPro\u010d je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 b\u00fdt jedine\u010dn\u00e1 m\u00e1ma?\tNezam\u011b\u0159ujte va\u0161i pozornost tomu, co od v\u00e1s o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1 va\u0161e okol\u00ed, ale v\u011bnujte v\u00e1\u0161 \u010das v \u017eivot\u011b pouze pot\u0159ebn\u00fdm v\u011bcem, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00fd v\u00fdznam. To, co o v\u00e1s mluv\u00ed ostatn\u00ed m\u00e1my nebo sousedi, p\u0159ece nen\u00ed \u017eivotu d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.\tJedin\u00e9, co m\u00e1 n\u011bjak\u00fd v\u00fdznam je v\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1te v\u0161echno tak dob\u0159e, jak jen m\u016f\u017eete a nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edmi kritici by pro v\u00e1s nem\u011bli b\u00fdt ciz\u00ed lidi, ale pouze va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b a rodina. A to i v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 hodnoty stanoven\u00e9 \u00fapln\u011b n\u011bkde jinde.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.3\/5 - (14 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed matka? Neexistuje!","item":"https:\/\/www.spaarch.cz\/idealni-matka-neexistuje\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]